Love...
When we see Love as the focus of life then life’s hardships will be eased by the beauty that surrounds us. It won’t just disappear but it will provide healing. The problem we may have is being able to recognise when real Love shows up. Whether it’s a pleasant exchange, a meaningful conversation or being in an environment that gives you a little dose of wonder.
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It’s a path of deep richness and an opportunity to ride life’s highs and lows, making sure that the focus comes back to, Love. It’s the hardest thing I know. We are tested at our worst of times. It’s easy when life is going wonderfully to be free spirited, to see life as an adventure. It’s the challenges that we overcome with those we love that show us what great people we have around us and essentially, who we really are.
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Setting unrealistic expectations on what you want love to be, settling for love, making excuses for others, resisting to change confuses the world and puts Love in a bad light. We are what we say we are. Love is what we make it to be. If we are treating those we love in a negative way, then our idea of love and the outcome of that relationship will be just that, negative. If we allow ourselves to remain in situations that do not serve us, we will find ourselves at a loss. ———————
Investing your time, affection and energy on yourself and on others who you know will fulfil you as opposed to those who do not, will help build the life you dreamed of. No more drama. No need to fuel the victim mentality. Time to let goodness shine.
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What does Freedom mean to you?
When I was younger I found a paragraph that felt true to me on what freedom meant. I put it on my bedroom wall and it stuck with me. It’s message was along the lines of “With ‘freedom’ comes great responsibility.”
We feel free in a given moment and time, when we’ve accomplished something, when we can take ourselves to places that allow us to roam free, free from responsibility and duties or when we choose to be free from our own mind, emotional bonds or the idea of ‘this is what I must/have to do’.
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True freedom exists in these moments. Moments that may last for a second, a day, weeks or possibly for longer. But to give ourselves a little bit more of that freeing feeling, we will still have to push through, struggle a little more, to make it our reality.
True freedom is also an acceptance that our ‘freedom’ comes with great responsibility, of being a citizen of the world. Free from a level of resistance we may battle with. Acknowledging the responsibility of our actions or inactions contributing to something bigger than we realise. Taking ownership of events in our life, whether direct or indirectly related to us. ——————————
True freedom is understanding this and acknowledging that whatever we do we are tied in some way or another to rules, laws, cause and effect, to our friends, family, partners, spouses, to our jobs, our chosen path. To our ideologies, our morals, our leaders, to God, to energy, to evolution or nature. Not all will sit well with us and not all of this will apply to us. It’s our role to find what makes sense for us and embrace it.
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When we find acceptance we can then transform our life in the way we want, finding that balance between being ‘controlled’ by others and in control of our existence.
What choices will you make right now to allow yourself to breathe better, live better or to love better?
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HLC thoughts...
The deeper we go,
the stronger we’ll be.
The bolder we’ll become.
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An acceptance of your whole being and the shedding of the need to be anything else but who you are. Space will appear and you’ll have that chance you want, whether it is to continue to:
change
evolve
transform
Or
just remain as you are.
Whatever choice you make, the responsibility still lies in your hands on how you impact the world around you. Responsibility does not leave us, even if we have found a sense of ‘freedom’. A sense of ‘freedom’ can make you feel even more responsible for the energy you send out, because you now know better. •
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I thought I’d share a sneak peak of the fantastic work we are doing at the school I am working in. This school is exactly what I needed if I was ever to get back into the education sector. The headteacher is focused, driven, has high expectations but most importantly is someone who understands and values spirituality, family, community and well being.
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For over a year now, and what has moved me away from social media and HLC is my day to day job. I have been able to combine my two skills and I am happy with the vision, the team and the community we are creating there.
Here is something we are pushing forward. It is something all schools would benefit from, helping children and families in inner London. Although the education system is not perfect and it can feel so very draining as an educator, opportunities such as promoting a Growth Mindset and using Classroom Dojo is a refreshing way to engage children and families, to truly help and guide them, not just academically but personally. •
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"Each one has to find his peace from within. And peace to be real must be unaffected by outside circumstances.” Mahatma Gandhi
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Essentially acquiring peace is an internal struggle. Our powerful mind can send us into turmoil or make us feel on top of the world. Most of the time it’s just a matter of which mindset we are using. Ironically, our mindset can be affected by the outside world. But the world will NOT change for us, which is why we need to work through our ‘stuff’. Get in control over your own mind and ego instead of wanting to control others.
It’s okay to find this ridiculous. It’s perfectly okay to find this so damn hard.
We have to accept things as they are. What I do know and believe is that when we keep drip feeding ourselves some ‘higher’ truths or ‘wider’ possibilities of a new perspective or a healthier life, one day we may wake up realising it has been embedded into our core. Once it’s there, although the journey continues and at times feels like it can get harder, you know that no matter what, knowledge is there and with it hopefully you’ll have more meaning and some positive surprises.
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I may understand this but it doesn’t mean I find it any easier than you to put it into practice. Be real. Start where you are. Praise your efforts and keep going. •
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